Matrimony

Parish members* contemplating marriage, are required to begin the sacramental preparation process for Matrimony at least six months in advance of the anticipated wedding date. This process takes about six months. It includes a pre-nuptial investigation with the pastor or deacon;  taking the FOCCUS, a pre-marriage inventory of interests, values, and attitudes; attending a Diocesan Marriage Workshop; meeting with a parish Mentor couple to discuss FOCCUS results;  liturgy planning;  and meeting with the parish musician. The Church requires that all sacramental preparation be completed at least 30 days prior to the anticipated wedding date.

The foundation of the marital covenant is found in God, our Creator. It is presumed that couples seeking sacramental preparation for Matrimony desire to create a marital covenant inviting God into the union. God is the third party in any Christian marriage and with this presence comes grace. Sacramental preparation focuses on exactly what the holy covenant means within several contexts: to the individual within the relationship, to the couple, and to the couple who are a symbol to the faith community. Creating a marital covenant invites God, and so the Christian lifestyle, into the union of two people.

*At least one individual of the engaged couple needs to be a member of the parish. Regular attendance at Liturgy is strongly encouraged.

Please call the parish office, 251-8335, to make arrangements for parish membership, if necessary, to arrange to reserve the church for the wedding and to meet for sacramental preparation.